After 20 years, will you feel happier?
Human nature may be like frustration, as if life is surprisingly dissatisfied.
But in the future, there will be magical perfection, I am sure.
Now is the most beautiful, happiness is in the moment!
銆€銆€I remember when I was young, I grew up.
Because I feel that when I grow up, my parents can no longer control me.
You can drink cold water if you want to drink cold water. If you don’t sleep when you want to sleep at noon, you must be very happy.
銆€銆€When I really grew up, my parents couldn’t control it, but the happiness that I thought was not coming.
Because, although no one will control me to drink cold water, I found that the ideal was too insignificant.
Moreover, while gaining this insignificant freedom, there is a new scale of freedom.
For example, go to work at eight, even if it is 5 minutes late, the leader should look at his face.
And that face is more verbose than the parents when she was a child.
銆€銆€So, instead, I began to miss the carefree life of a child, and felt that it seemed to be happiness.
At the same time, it started a new trick: when you can implement flexible work, you must be very happy. You can sleep a few times and sleep a few times. You don’t have to be awakened by the alarm, you don’t have to wash your face.I forgot to wear it and went to the office.
銆€銆€A few years later, the flexible working system was finally realized.
In this case, become a veteran of your own mix, you can think of a few work to go to work, even if you are at home, no one said you.
However, I found that the happiness I expected at the beginning was gone without a trace.
Because, through the age of growth, there is no alarm, and there is no blessing in the morning.
Even when the sky is not bright, I wake up and do nothing to win the dawn.
Although no one asks you again, it is a habit to go to work on time, and there is nothing to do with flexible work and happiness!
銆€銆€Recalling decades of work experience, I also found that every unit will have a feeling of awkward leadership, will find me trouble.
Therefore, I always hope that this leader will be transferred, and stubbornly believe that as long as this person is transferred, the work will be very happy.
There is a part, he does not leave me, there is no grandfather here, he has his own place.
However, every time I find out, no matter where I go, the various colors, and the leadership I am doing are in the same shape.
Then he began to swear: When the day, the wife and the wife became a woman, and I can say the finale, no need to be led by the leadership, it must be very happy.
銆€銆€A few years later, I finally got out of my head: I became a leader, and I was able to show my face and let others see my face.
But I found that the happiness that I longed for did not come.
Because, although no one will make irresponsible remarks to you, but what responsibility should be responsible for me, big things, I have to make a decision, how is my heart so tired?
Moreover, the people around them have become so hypocritical, they put a fart, others will say incense.
銆€銆€So, every day, meeting, socializing, listening to reports, arranging work, busy like a gyro, I started a new one: I can live a leisurely life, I don’t have to worry about it, I want to fish, I want to fish.Playing cards and playing cards, you don’t have to look at so many false faces, listen to those nasty words, look at those boring documents, that is happiness.
銆€銆€Time flies, and I retired. I really don’t want anyone to take any responsibility. The phone that was annoying at the beginning was no longer called. The door was really cold to the pommel horse. All the time belongs to myself. I found that I was eager.Where happiness is happiness, it is simply the coldness and endless loneliness of people walking away from tea.
銆€銆€So, sitting alone under the sun, began to think about life: my life, from small to big, from big to old, I feel that if I do, tomorrow will be happy, but after the realization of one wish, happiness is still notCome?
At this time, it is only after I have truly understood a word that I have not been able to gain in my heart.
Everything is actually in the moment.
銆€銆€If you feel that you are not happy now, you always feel that change is happiness, or that you have been happy in the past, then I am afraid that it will be difficult to have true happiness in my life!
The future has not come yet, and the past has passed.
If every moment we don’t grasp, don’t take it seriously, always think about the invisible tomorrow or the yesterday that we have already gone, we will live in tension and loss forever.
As life sneaked away, there were only three words left in the end: empty and sad.銆€銆€So, if you want to know if you will be happy after 20 years, in terms of your personal attitude, you can know the current state: If you are happy now, you should be happy after 20 years; if you have too many things to sendTomorrow, 20 years later, these wishes, whether realized or not, may not feel real happiness.
銆€銆€The reason is simple. Desire is never the source of happiness, but the root of all suffering.
When a desire is satisfied, it will immediately produce new ones, just like me, satisfying the desire to drink cold water casually, and will have a desire to sleep late, and it will be endless and endless.
銆€銆€So, keep these lessons in mind, happiness is in the present, every day, even every moment in your hands, and there is no past or future.